Never Put a Propane Tank in the Trash
Propane tanks are a fire and explosion hazard and are classified as hazardous household products. Even a tank you think is empty almost always holds a small amount of flammable propane under pressure, which can ignite in a garbage truck or at a landfill and endanger sanitation workers. "Empty/purged" means all liquid and vapor propane has been removed and the pressure neutralized — a job for a propane professional, not something you can safely do or verify yourself. So the right move is always exchange, refill, or a hazardous-waste route.
20-lb BBQ Tanks: Exchange, Refill, or Dispose
For a standard 20-pound grill tank you have four good options. Exchange: swap your empty at a Blue Rhino or AmeriGas cage outside Home Depot, Lowe's, Walmart, grocery stores and gas stations — they take any brand, you pay roughly $20-$30, and you leave with a filled, inspected tank (note exchange tanks are usually filled to about 15 pounds of propane, not the full 20). Refill: a propane dealer refills your own tank by weight, often cheaper at around $14-$20, as long as it's within its 12-year certification. Dispose: take an unwanted tank to a household hazardous waste (HHW) facility, usually free, or return it to a local propane dealer.
Ace Hardware, Tractor Supply & Scrapping
Many Ace Hardware stores offer propane exchange and/or on-site refill, and Tractor Supply commonly refills 20-pound tanks by weight — but services vary by store, so call first; these are exchange/refill services, not free take-back. As for getting money by scrapping a tank: it's minimal, typically only about $1-$5 for a 20-pound tank, and a scrap yard will accept it only if it's completely empty with the valve removed. Do not remove the valve yourself — have a propane professional purge the tank. For most people, exchanging or refilling is more worthwhile than scrapping.
Small 1-lb Camping Canisters
The little green 1-pound canisters (Coleman-style) are the trickiest. Disposable ones are single-use and unsafe/illegal for consumers to refill, and they must not be trashed if any gas remains. Best options: take them to a county HHW facility, which depressurizes and recycles them (usually free); if you have an REI nearby, all US REI stores accept punctured, emptied canisters for free recycling; or switch to a reusable 1-pound refillable cylinder (REI runs an exchange, and California's ReFuel Your Fun program promotes reusable cylinders with refill and drop-off locations). Coleman's old "Green Key" disposal tool has effectively been discontinued, so don't rely on it.
Where to Drop Off or Find a Site
To find a location: county HHW facilities take tanks of all sizes (search Earth911's household-hazardous-waste filter by ZIP, or check your county solid-waste department); Blue Rhino and AmeriGas have online locators for their exchange cages; local propane dealers take back old tanks for requalification or recycling; and REI stores handle punctured 1-pound canisters. When in doubt, your city or county public works department can point you to who accepts tanks locally.